Socially awkward? Or do you just want to catch the eye of the hottie across the bar? Did you know that body language can speak louder than any spoken words?
Here is our crash course on how to catch anyone’s attention with out saying anything. Don’t believe us? Keep reading and you can than us later (wink)!
Take the Prime Position
When you arrive, grab one or two of your friends and head straight for the middle of the room. As other people walk in, you’ll appear to be the center of attention and they’ll naturally gravitate towards you. How’s that for attention?
Perfect Smile
The biggest mistake people make in social situations is putting on the perma-smile, which comes off as insincere. Instead, use a close-lipped smirk, like you have a secret you?re just dying to tell. Then wait until after you say hi to that hottie from the bar to flash them a big smile. You want them to think that they’re the reason you’re suddenly so happy. Impressive huh?
Don’t Be Afraid to Touch
When you’re chatting with someone, casually place a hand on his or her arm. Touch triggers good feelings and signals special treatment; so not only will the person you’re talking to like you more, other people will wish they were the object of your undivided attention. Trust us, works like a charm.
Changing Posture
Instead of sitting with your hands at your side, move one elbow onto the back of your chair. This subtle move amps up your sexiness and exudes confidence. If you’re standing, you can get the same effect by leaning on a nearby bar or countertop with one arm. Try it. We dare you.
Hands Off Your Hair
Messing with your tresses sends a message to both men and women that you’re insecure or nervous, which makes them suddenly get the urge to refill their drink. Don’t make them lose interest!
Let Your Cocktail Do the Talking
Hold your glass in one hand and off to the side as opposed to directly in front of you with two hands. Doing so will show off your wrists (a move men find particularly attractive because it hints at openness and vulnerability) and leave your midsection, a power zone that communicates confidence, unobstructed. Starting to believe us?
Get Moving
As the party gets packed, change your location every fifteen or twenty minutes. It can be as simple as walking from the bar over to a window or a couch. Every time you move to a different setting, you’ll be seen from a new angle, making you instantly more dynamic. Plus, you’ll be seen by a whole new batch of hotties.
So, ready to conquer the night? We thought so.
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